Each time I log unto Facebook I can see several things, my father posting about retirement and an article about a celebrity expecting another child with another person than the one they had previously. Quite frequently. I think we as people get so wrapped up in love making that we don’t stop to think, Should we be involved with multiple partners and have all these children?.

Me personally I would not want to be involved with multiple partners for the following reasons:

• Too many names to remember
• Too many voices
• Too many personalities
• Too many opinions
• No time alone to reflect
• No time for hobbies
• STD’s GALORE
• How do you divide time with this many people?
• Jealousy and animosity amongst the multiple partners
• Who do you lay your head next to at the end of the day

All of that is before children who might feel some type of way about having half siblings and having to sharing a mother or father with someone else. By living the way you do you could be exposing your son or daughter to a lifestyle that might not be good for them.

You can have all the power; fame; and wealth in the world, yet make poor decisions towards your children. To be a good parent as I have read and observed is to make time for them; feed them; put clothes on their backs; put a roofs over their heads; educate them; and put their needs before your own. If we can find the time to be intimate with another person, then we must assume can spend time with all of our children.

I applaud anyone who can father and mother a child, but if you are not prepared to be present or be responsible for a child, I highly recommend birth control or reevaluating the choice to be involved with anyone.